To Label It.
I am the kind of person who usually seeks clarification first before answering back, saying a comment, stating my opinion or doing something that might affect someone. Some people however find this habit of mine very annoying. I have been unjustly described as "difficult . " "someone who complicates things, or someone who takes things very seriously." Just to give an example of what I am so that you can judge me accordingly, say if you say something to me and I am not sure whether to take it as a joke or seriously, I will ask so that I can respond accordingly, if a friend comes to me with a problem, I will also ask if they are just trying to vent or are seeking help from me. This character flaw , ( I actually don't believe it is a flaw) makes me want to label things, relationships, or situations so that I act accordingly. Just yesterday, I found myself fighting the urge to ask my work colleague-Glowey, ( someone who i have allowed to get under my