Where Am I ?

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 It's been ages since I last posted . Well, a lot has happened , without being stingy, here are a  few if not all of my life updates : I  moved out, and no longer stay Lilongwe(I still make occasional trips to town), I got my nose pierced (my father hates it), I loc'd my hair and colored it  (best decision ! My locs are now a few inches long and shake when I move my head to say no) . Look at me, a walking stereotype ! If you're Malawian you know that a woman's character is judged based on such mundane things. "She has a nose ring! it must mean that she is very loose"


I have been feeling a little disoriented lately, and this is the only place where I am free to express myself. Every time I want to open up to someone, a little voice in my heard quickly ridicules me, " all girls do is talk about their feelings". I gotta admit , I really like talking about my feelings and listening to people talk about their feelings. The only think that gives me comfort about opening up on  here is that i am assured of the fact that no one I personally know will ever find this site.

I promise myself to write and post  more, and  if you somehow found your way here, please know that this will feel like reading someone's diary.




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